challenges

Let’s face it, no one wants a challenge. Many times, challenges crash our best-laid plans, send stress levels soaring, and leave us questioning decisions. But what if I told you these obstacles could actually be your secret weapon for growth? A simple example if your current life. If you think back to how you became the amazing person you are today challenges, you faced probably had a great deal. In short challenges have helped you grow and build wisdom.

Instead of seeing challenges as roadblocks, imagine challenges as steppingstones on a journey of continuous learning and improvement. I once started an eCommerce company because people in Africa couldn’t buy products from Macys, Walmart, Nordstroms and other USA and UK retail online stores. In building that business we had to create new purchase, payment and shipping processes for emerging market eCommerce. It was so challenging, sometimes almost unbearable. But I knew deep down all the challenges I was facing only got me to think outside the box and figure out things no one else had ever figured out. It ended up being one of the largest eCommerce platforms in Africa. So, I do have firsthand experience on this topic I have gained over 20 years and 6 companies later. I can tell you this “Challenges help you grow”.

So, how do you shift our perspective from obstacle aversion to challenge embracement? Here are my 3 key steps to turn your fear into fuel:

1. Start with the mind: Reframe Your Narrative:

Instead of labeling a challenge as a “problem,” try reframing it as a “puzzle” or a “learning opportunity.” This simple shift in language will instantly change your emotional response, making it less daunting and more exciting. Remember, “challenges are not problems to be solved, but opportunities to evolve” (Albert Einstein).

2. Seek the Silver Lining:

Every challenge, no matter how big or small, holds within it a valuable lesson for all to learn. Ask yourself: “What can I learn from this? What skills can I develop? How can I use this experience to improve in the future of my business or myself?” By actively seeking the positive in the midst of the challenge, you turn frustration into fuel for growth. I always look for opportunities when challenges arise, so should you. Every challenge I have found has an opportunity just waiting to be uncovered.

3. Celebrate Small Wins:

Don’t wait for the grand finale to celebrate your progress. Acknowledge and celebrate every small step forward, every hurdle cleared, every lesson learned do me a favor and celebrate. This positive reinforcement keeps you motivated and reminds you that even the toughest challenges can be conquered with the right mindset and small steps.

Remember in business and life try not to go at it alone! Surround yourself with supportive mentors and colleagues who believe in your potential and can help you navigate challenges. Remember, growth is a shared journey, and having a cheering squad along the way makes all the difference.

By embracing challenges as steppingstones on the path to growth, you unlock a hidden superpower: the ability to learn, adapt, and thrive in any situation. So, the next time you encounter an obstacle, remember this: Challenges help you grow and open up a whole new world of opportunities. So always look around for what opportunities changes may bring you..

Stay blessed.

Chris Folayan
Award Winning Author / Serial Entrepreneur / Founder